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“You’re the only one who’s fully there for them” – Volunteering with the Rape Crisis Centre

In an interview with TheJournal.ie, volunteer co-ordinator Mairead Mallon says that they are looking at how to involve more men in the volunteering process.

Earlier this week the Dublin Rape Crisis Centre released its Annual Report which revealed a marked rise in the volume of calls over the past two years.

As a charity which handles thousands of calls a year and offers support and therapy services to victims of rape or sexual assault, a number of volunteers are required to assist staff.

TheJournal.ie sat down with Mairead Mallon, Volunteer Co-ordinator, and volunteer Jan McLaughlin to find out more about the work of these volunteers who were highly praised in the annual report.

Their most well-known role is operating the free-phone helpline. While the helpline is staffed by paid operators from 8am to 7pm, a team of volunteers take calls overnight. Over a quarter of last year’s 9,142 calls were received during this time.

Although almost half of calls where related to rape, they might not necessarily be in a crisis situation. Callers may get in touch to get seek therapy years after the incident, or to just speak to someone for some support.

A breakdown of the gender of callers and the nature of their call. Click here if you are having trouble viewing the image. (Image: Dublin Rape Crisis Centre)

While they are available to give support over the phone, these volunteers are also available to accompany people to court cases or the sexual assault treatment unit upon request. Jan explained how can this can be a powerful and “very rewarding” part of the job.

“Everybody else [in the treatment unit] has a job to do, the doctors, the nurses, the guards. You’re probably the only person who’s fully there with no agenda. You’re just there with the person to be whatever they want you to be while they’re in the unit.”

When Jan first got involved with the Rape Crisis Centre as a volunteer, she had no previous experience of therapy. She was brought through an intensive and comprehensive training process to deal with the wide range of issues operators on the helpline will be confronted with.

They are also taught skills such as active listening, and how to handle hoax calls.

After the training volunteers are assigned a mentor, and are not able to man the helpline or accompany people to treatment until both themselves and the mentor feel they are ready.

“We don’t ask for any qualifications at all. We will actually teach our volunteers anything they need to know”, said Mairead, “They only need to be over 25 as they need a little bit of life experience.”

However, this is currently under review to take into account one very specific requirement to must meet to be able to volunteer — you must be a woman.

Despite 11% of the calls to the centre were from men, the lack of therapists of both genders being available for support does not seem to have caused any problems in the past

“Even if it is a male victim of rape or sexual assault, they’re about fine with speaking to a female” said Mairead, “We have one male therapist currently, and while people were initially apprehensive of this, it quickly became apparent that it was not a problem”

“We’re having a very serious talk right now about how we can involve males in our volunteering.”

Short staffed

Volunteers generally only work at the centre for two years due to the “tough” nature of the work, and so there is a frequent need to recruit more. Opening it up to men could alleviate some occasional staffing problems.

The 60 volunteers currently working with the centre sometimes aren’t enough to manage the volume of calls. This situation can occur in the wake of a report like Murphy or Ryan being released.

“You will get aged 60, 70, 80, who have never ever dreamt of going to counselling, but who see the number on the TV screen and will actually call the line. All they want is someone to just listen to their story, and they are so surprised when someone actually just listens.” said Mairead.

The age of callers to the Dublin Rape Crisis Centre in 2012. Click here if you are having trouble viewing the image. (Image: Dublin Rape Crisis Centre)

You can read the Dublin Rape Crisis Centre Annual Report 2012 in full here. If you wish to find out more about volunteering with DRCC, email volunteerservices@rcc.ie

The Centre’s freephone number is 1800 77 88 88.

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    Jan 5th 2015, 10:50 AM

    Should be a bumper year for tourists from the UK and the States so

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    Mute Steve M
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    Jan 5th 2015, 1:10 PM

    Not so good if you plan on going to the US from Ireland tho.

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    Mute John
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    Jan 5th 2015, 11:01 AM

    The Greeks lied about their balance sheet prior to being admitted to the Euro, they lied about their tax receipts, they lied about repaying debts, why haven’t they been f**ked out long before now never mind worrying whether they might leave????

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    Jan 5th 2015, 11:41 AM

    If they leave the Eurozone their debts will have to be written off increasing the burden on the remaining members.

    If they stay in the money won’t be paid back but they debt will remain on the books and not shared out amongst the other members.

    EU let Greece is as they saw safety in numbers but now must admit that it was a huge mistake.

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    Mute Were Jammin
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    Jan 5th 2015, 10:50 AM

    Which European state benefits from a weak Euro the most?

    Germany.

    And who made the first soundings about a Greek exit?

    Germany.

    Seeing a pattern here?

    Ming was spot on, we are in an abusive relationship with Europe, and like any abusive relationship the sooner you get out of it the better.

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    Jan 5th 2015, 10:45 AM

    EURO project looks to be in big trouble.

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    Jan 5th 2015, 10:58 AM

    A weak euro is good for exports, and investment. As an export led economy, this is no bad thing!

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    Mute Jurgen Remak
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    Jan 5th 2015, 11:23 AM

    Agreed, another boost for Ireland’s excellent FDI strategy. A dramatically lower oil price is a boost to many companies too. Some have said the dollar will even reach parity and more with the Euro over the next 3 years as the US roars ahead.

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    Mute Were Jammin
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    Jan 5th 2015, 11:50 AM

    Basing your economic model so heavily on exports simply means you are allowing external factors to steer your economy. Allowing the domestic economy to stay stagnant has been one of the single greatest errors of this government.

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    Mute Jurgen Remak
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    Jan 5th 2015, 12:25 PM

    Reasonable point but it is not a zero sum game. Having a such a great FDI strategy does not automatically mean that the domestic economy is neglected. FDI has served Ireland well since the 80′s in such a globally competitive world. That is the world we now live in.
    I would tend to agree more though generally re the stagnant domestic economy by the current administration. Difficult to do for a small country after they continued taking on the enormous burden of the banking debt.

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    Jan 5th 2015, 10:55 AM

    Looks like it will be easily to sell Mercedes in America from now on, well that’s what the euro is for

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    Jan 5th 2015, 10:55 AM

    Greece may leave, but Lithuania, although a member of E.U. since 2004, adopted the Euro, a few days ago.

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    Jan 5th 2015, 10:52 AM

    Any alternative is generally met with fear in this system.

    We all recognise this system benefits the few yet when someone comes out with an alternative the powers that be scare you away, I look forward to Greece trying something different. In reality it’s the EU’s fault they never inserted a viable opt out clause for the euro.

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    Jan 5th 2015, 11:14 AM

    The Euro is going down the drain

    We need to leave the EU asap

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    Jan 5th 2015, 11:37 AM

    The Greeks are to blame for their own mess, they lied to everybody about their finances, the rich fiddled like violinists in an orchestra, the retirement age for some was to low, some benefits were far to generous. It was unsustainable!

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    Jan 5th 2015, 11:00 AM

    it also means higher rates of interest in the next couple of years. If capital is flowing from Europe to the US it means the bond market will demand a higher return to buy European Debt.

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    Jan 5th 2015, 12:42 PM

    Shouldn’t the headline read “… fewer and fewer US dollars…”?

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    Jan 5th 2015, 11:41 AM

    Out houshold income is pegged to the dollar.. This decline boosts our income in euro terms by about €37k after tax.

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    Jan 5th 2015, 1:28 PM

    The Bureau de Change in Boston Logan Airport so generously offered me 97 dollars for 100 euro yesterday

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    Jan 5th 2015, 2:32 PM

    Quit your yapping and learn how to trade it folks.

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    Jan 5th 2015, 11:56 AM

    What would deflation in the euro/Germany area do for our “robust” recovery? I couldn’t help but use the word robust but anybody have a clue? Cheaper imports I would imagine would be good and we seem more depended on uk and USA for growth

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    Jan 5th 2015, 4:38 PM

    There’s a similar abusive relationship between the Irish government and the ordinary people of Ireland.

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