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Today is 'National Coming Out Day'

Events taking place today hope to inspire people to live openly and confidently, without fear of prejudice.

ENCOURAGING PEOPLE TO live their lives openly and confidently is the theme of today’s national Coming Out Day.

A number of events are taking place across the country to mark the occasion with an aim to help gay men and women reach their full potential without fear.

Chair of the National Lesbian and Gay Federations, Olivia McEvoy, hopes to inspire “the necessary courage in lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered people to ‘come out’ to themselves, their families, friends and work colleagues”.

“We look forward to welcoming them to our vibrant community,” she added.

The organisers behind the LGBT Helpline have recognised that it can be a difficult time, however. It has decided to stay open for 24 hours (from midnight yesterday) to let people know there are supports available to them.

“This day really highlights to LGBT people that they’re not alone in feeling challenged by the process of ‘coming out’,” said coordinator Paula Fagan.

She also stressed that it is not exclusively a young person’s issue.

People of all ages come out in many different ways…A lot of the people that call our helpline are in their forties, fifties, sixties and older.

“People in older age-groups grew up at a time when homosexuality was still illegal in Ireland, so they may have felt compelled to hide their sexuality. For others, they may have only recently started to identify as LGBT; their sexual orientation may have changed over the years; or they may have felt unable to tell people they were LGBT when they were younger.”

She also noted that the ‘coming out’ period can impact families and friends, causing stress and anxiety.

A study, due to be published next month, shows that there is a high level of mental health issues among LGBT people. Almost 80 per cent of transgender people surveyed indicate they have considered suicide, while Headstrong has found recently that 19 per cent of gay or lesbian young people and 24 per cent of bisexual young people had attempted suicide, compared to six per cent of young heterosexual respondents.

Vanessa Lacey, who has a transgender history herself, says, “Mental health issues amongst transgender people are a stark reality, underlining the need for support for transgender people of all ages.

“Awareness-raising of transgender identities and experiences is paramount to fostering acceptance and reducing stigma. That’s why initiatives like ‘National Coming Out Day’ are so important.”

“It is crucially important that LGBT people can be ourselves and live our lives openly and confidently,” added Sean Denyer of NLGF and Acting Out.

“Yet even today, here in Ireland, far too many feel the need to hide their sexual orientation or gender identity due to ongoing prejudice.

“This provides a real challenge not just to those of us in the LGBT community, but also key stake holders in broader Irish society to create a social and legal climate in which homophobia is simply not tolerated or afforded any kind of legitimacy.”

Piotr Gawlik, who is orginally from Poland and a member of the NLGF board, believes today’s events are also about “standing in solidarity” with those in other parts of the world who are subjected to state-sanctioned persecution because of their LGBT status.

The LGBT Helpline can be reached at 1890 929 539.

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    Mute Gee Gach Duine
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    Jun 29th 2014, 10:24 AM

    Try leaving your phone in your pocket and you might actually see someone.

    Although I am not a doctor so please don’t take this as medical advice.

    Actually do, do take this as medical advice.

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    Mute Niall H
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    Jun 29th 2014, 10:31 AM

    Cool app but has it really come to the stage where we’re too socially inept to bloody chat somebody up in a nightclub, instead we have to do it hiding behind a screen??!

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    Mute Diarmuid
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    Jun 29th 2014, 11:10 AM

    Add a function to register your cloakroom ticket.. and a taser function to fend off s€umbags.. and an ID function where the club can validate your age on first visit (no need for subsequent ID documentation).. and a “pint of water” reminder after your 5th jaeger.. and a DJ music request function.. and a broken glass/pile of sick warning function.. and a “Will ya shift me mate?” function.. and a “No thanks, I’ll wash my own hands” automated voice button.. then cut me in on the profits!

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    Mute Jim
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    Jun 29th 2014, 10:31 AM

    Sounds like something that could take off
    Ill send a wink to me wife and see if see buys me a drink
    Cheers

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    Mute Graham Carrick
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    Jun 29th 2014, 11:31 AM

    If it sends you a reminder of her name at 8 the next morning then this is a winner! Cut out the rest of the needless crap.

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    Mute TOP CAT
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    Jun 29th 2014, 10:37 AM

    I use the Vino application to get the best results with the ladies…

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    Mute Seamus Kirby
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    Jun 29th 2014, 10:27 AM

    Fix your headline. Grammar and spelling as good as ever on this site!

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    Mute James Darby
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    Jun 29th 2014, 10:45 AM

    Who’s Will?

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    Mute Andrea Rock Massey
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    Jun 29th 2014, 11:14 AM

    Imagine going through all of this, selecting your venue having winked at someone you fancy, pre ordered your drink etc etc and then the doorman doesn’t let you in.

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    Mute Patrick
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    Jun 29th 2014, 11:40 AM

    It’s dehumanising the life experience. Young people are lacking in people skills now. I can see a future growth in an area that teaches people social skills as a result of their whole social life being conducted on a phone.

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    Mute GATHERINGYOURMONEY14
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    Jun 29th 2014, 12:02 PM

    What next?
    A riding App?

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    Mute Melanie Dunne
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    Jun 29th 2014, 2:17 PM

    You mean tindr?

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    Mute GATHERINGYOURMONEY14
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    Jun 29th 2014, 9:57 PM

    Please send me the link : )

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    Mute The Hooded Biscuit
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    Jun 29th 2014, 11:14 AM

    Don’t know who has power in their phone to be using these apps in nightclubs

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    Mute Hung Xi
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    Jun 29th 2014, 2:59 PM

    Seeing people staring at their phones on a night out is a real old annoyance for me. When I see free wifi on display I go elsewhere.

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    Mute Michael Connors
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    Jun 29th 2014, 11:17 AM

    A guy approached me a few years ago to work on something like this. Perhaps I should have said yes.
    Ah well.

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    Mute Sean Hyland
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    Jun 29th 2014, 12:58 PM

    Think we’re in a bit of an app bubble. Tons have launched this year and most seem to be four square type spin offs.

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    Mute Mark Boyle
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    Jun 29th 2014, 1:48 PM

    Dunno about the app but the website appears to send your credit card details across the internet without any encryption or protection. Classy.

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    Mute peter
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    Jun 29th 2014, 10:30 AM

    http://www.broadsheet.ie/tag/kieran-boylan/

    Seems you don’t go to jail for heroin in Drogheda.

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    Mute David
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    Jun 29th 2014, 12:10 PM

    Seems you’ve got the wrong story.

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    Mute Paddy Herlihy
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    Jun 30th 2014, 9:57 AM

    I work on the other side of the bar and have been taking venoo payments for the past couple of months.. I find it to be much quicker than someone using their card which for anyone who works behind the bar knows it’s very tedious.. the fact that you can lodge a predetermined amount into your account is also very useful as you don’t overspend, which for me happens all too regularly.. the 15% discount is a nice touch too.. serious potential here.

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    Mute 1 Human Being
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    Jun 29th 2014, 3:21 PM

    Crapp

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    Mute The Truth Hurts
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    Jun 29th 2014, 4:59 PM

    Ring a taxi? Bahahahahahahahahaha

    They clearly have never seen the queue on Harcourt St any night of the week or even outside some pubs I frequent in….

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    Mute Gary Mason
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    Jun 29th 2014, 6:01 PM

    The truth hurts

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