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FINE GAEL SENATOR Eamonn Coghlan has delivered a passionate call for a Yes vote in the same-sex marriage referendum and revealed his own struggle with coming to terms with his son’s sexuality.
The former World Champion runner spoke about the difficulties his son Michael faced as a result of being gay in a speech to a Fine Gael LGBT public information meeting tonight.
“When I discovered my son, Michael was gay I was devastated. I cried for weeks. The hopes and dreams I had for my son were shattered. I felt guilty, almost as if I was to blame for him being gay,” Coghlan told the audience in Portlaoise.
I tried to cover up my disappointment. While I hugged him, told him I loved him, I had to come to terms that, it was not about me but, about him and his life ahead.
He said the breakthrough came when some of Michael’s friends, who are also gay, joined a family holiday in Spain.
But Coghlan said that his son was subjected to abuse and, on two occasions, violent physical attacks in Dublin.
“I got to know them and see how happy he was with his mates. Michael is a grown man now but he suffered awful bullying in school. At the time we didn’t know why this was happening but after he came out it became apparent that it was because he was gay.
“He had also suffered from terrible stomach problems as a teen which we could never get diagnosed. It transcribed that this was all anxiety related because of the struggle he had with knowing he was gay and the bullying he was being subjected to.”
The abuse didn’t stop after he came out. He was subject to two particularly violent physical attacks in Dublin on account of his being gay.
Coghlan delivered a powerful endorsement of the referendum in 22 May, saying: “I was lucky enough to marry the woman of my dreams. Who are we as a nation to deny our sons and daughters the basic right of marrying the person they love?”
He also said:
It is clear to me as a parent of a gay child that the marriage equality Referendum is about voting for real people and their lives. It is not about politics or about voting for a particular party.
It is about equality, removing rejection, removing exclusion, removing the guilt, shame and fear that gay people experience. We have to think of the person, their dignity, their validation, their human freedom to love and to live life to the full.
Michael Coghlan, 27, was not at the meeting tonight and is currently living in California.
The meeting in Portlaoise is part of a series of public information events that Fine Gael LGBT has organised around the country ahead of the referendum.
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It’s time to lock up the thugs!
Heres any idea ban all marches except 1 on paddys day for all the republicians/nationalists and 1 on the 12th for all the loyalists/unionists. If you dont like it tough. Time to move into the 21st centuary. Quit sitting with your back to the future crying about the past.
Didn’t realise St Patrick was a republican?
Two words: Rubber bullets. No three more: in the arse
Looks like times up for the knuckledraggers.
Long time coming.
Nah, this’ll just be grist to their mill. “Ooh, ooh we’re being oppressed” “flag protests are an integral part of our culture” etc
Dress code for such protests:
Track suit bottoms with holes
Scarf
Hoodie
Flag draped in rebel fashion
Yep, until July, then it’s back to:
Black suits
Sash
Bowler hat
Flag flown in triumphalist fashion
Don’t forget the rangers jerseys
I say we take off and nuke the entire site from orbit. It’s the only way to be sure.
Please don’t, depending on which loyalist kip you blow up, I could be fried in an instant.
Game over man, game over!
No surrender
Pee off
Pee on.. lord of the love rocket
We’re not asking ye to surrender.
Ulster says no. Never never never.no surrender.
Ah well, the police got plenty of overtime to pay for xmas and book a holiday. Nice work if you can get it, standing around doing nothing!
Maybe if they move to arrest the small groups of teenagers off our roads we can all go about our own business.
Political policing at its finest
I thought it was hilarious that those “protesters” who were fighting for the right to fly and respect the flag, were using it as a weapon to attack other lads!
that picture just conjures the words zombie apocalypse.
They arent protestors . They are on the way to a chav convention.
I don’t understand d problem it’s not like it’s there country
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