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Column Men need to help with gender equality - but it's good for them too

Ireland has a huge way to go in terms of gender equality but the onus is on men to do something about it, says Plan Ireland CEO David Dalton.

GENDER EQUALITY HAS still not been achieved in Ireland – and it’s not just up to women to make the improvements. The onus too is on men to do something about it.

Ireland currently ranks 79th in the global table of female representation in parliament. Of Ireland’s elected deputies, only 14.5 per cent are women. To offer a comparison, Rwanda’s parliament is 53 per cent female.

We, as a country, have a huge way to go. And I’m saying this after a new report has just revealed some shocking statistics in so-called developing countries.

Only 7 per cent of board members in Irish companies are female. We are poor performers on a lot of these barometers.

That is why we are calling on men to do something. Most parliamentarians are men, most CEOs are men so it incumbent on them to help sort out this issue.

In business, some men still believe that a woman “goes to have babies” and disrupts the business model. These beliefs make life very difficult for women.

But in helping get rid of such gender stereotypes, men will also be helping themselves.

Debunking myths can lead to healthier men and better fathers

Males under the age of 24 generally try to live up to the stereotype of “being a man”.  They live harder, becoming more susceptible to alcohol abuse, substance abuse and road traffic accidents.

On the domestic front, fathers could stand back a little bit and see what they can do to break down such gender stereotypes. Could they help more with household chores or caring for the younger children? By doing so, these small changes can give an example to their sons and lead to a new breed of male.

If men are willing to share the power burden, it will be good for them too. There is a feeling among men that they need to be the main bread-winner. There is a sense of failure if they not providing everything for their family.

If there is less of a gender stereotype displayed to boys and if they buy into gender equality and a new image of the male, they are under less pressure to conform. They will live longer, become better fathers and more-rounded adults.

However, if these things are not experienced at home, it is important that the issues are addressed in school.

We have already started to debunk the myths. For example, school books are more representative and include all sorts of ethnic groups and different family dynamics. We are starting a pre-school level to get rid of gender stereotypes.

Boys and girls should care about gender equality

No matter where in the world you are, gender equality is good for boys, as well as girls.

Girls’ and women’s rights are human rights. It can often be helpful for men to look at it more parochially – imagine how they want their own mothers, sisters, girlfriends or wives to be treated in the greater world. If men and boys believe in justice and fairness, they will be able to see that not all women enjoy the same level of respect in the community.

Plan International works in 50 developing countries with a vision of a world in which all children realise their full potential in societies that respect people’s rights and dignity.

In our latest report, Because I am a Girl: The State of the World’s Girls, we found that greater gender equality will help boys to succeed in school, to be comfortable with their own identity, to be confident in expressing emotions and be equipped with the skills to build positive relationships of mutual trust and respect.

A new perspective on gender is about a more productive way of viewing power relationships to benefit both sexes.

In developing countries, a lot of inequality and violence is generational and our work is about breaking cycles.

Education needs to start at a young age and it is vital that families become aware that educating girls is just as worthy an investment as educating boys.

In some countries – for example India and China – even young children believe that if resources are scare then it is better to educate the boy, rather than the girl.

In a perverse way, this belief is perpetuated by the parents. In some cases, the female child is even less nourished than the male. Families often see their sons as a better “investment” than their daughters.

However, we have found that if a girl spends just one more year in school, then she will ean about 20 per cent more annually throughout her lifetime. And about 90 per cent of that income goes directly to the household. We therefore encourage girls across the world, particularly in developing countries, to stay in school longer, look for a job, get married later in life and have fewer but healthier children.

As told to Sinéad O’Carroll following the launch of the 2011 Because I am a Girl: The State of the World’s Girls report. David Dalton is CEO of Plan Ireland, which runs the Because I am a Girl campaign, tackling issues of gender inequality. For further information, please visit www.plan.ie.

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    Mar 7th 2015, 9:42 AM

    Nothing to do with that peaceful religion of course.

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    Mar 7th 2015, 10:08 AM

    Probably America’s fault scipio because of the Malian governments improved relationship with western nations, well from the tin foil hat brigade anyway?.

    The fact is westerners in any predominately Islamic nation can often be taking their lives in their own hands, you don’t know when or where these Islamofacist nut jobs are going to strike next, but strike they will.

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    Mar 7th 2015, 11:21 AM

    Look guys, we know you hate the religion of islam, but you could at least wait for further info before you spout your hatred.
    And remember if someone blatantly hated the jewish religion like you two hate islam, we know what they would be called.

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    Mar 7th 2015, 12:10 PM

    ….There’s murder on the dance floor…you better not kill the groove….

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    Mar 7th 2015, 2:10 PM

    Once a bigot always a bigot eh Scipio? Let’s condemn Austrian Protestants for the actions of Northern Loalist murder gangs. Let’s judge ALL Christians by the actions of the Westboro Baptist Church, let’s judge ALL Jews by the Israeli government’s treatment of Palestinians. Let’s blame ALL secularists for the actions of Hitler & Stalin. Is that how we should work this? So called Islamic Fundamentalists have killed more Shi’ia Muslims than any other religious group but hey, according to Scipio we should blame all Shi’as too! It’s about as logical as blaming German Jews for Nazism because they are German!
    Scipio doesn’t want shades or a nuanced view, everything is black and white. Muslims bad, everyone else good.

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    Mar 7th 2015, 6:25 PM

    The useful idiots are out this evening I see defending the Jihadis. I’m sure they’ll return the favour.

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    Mar 7th 2015, 7:12 PM

    and they call the likes of scipio a bigot?, when he like me thinks the spread of this Islamic disease will have my grand children cursing me!.

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    Mar 7th 2015, 7:31 PM

    Wiiliam some people won’t realise until it’s too late and they’re jizya paying dhimmis.
    Ten Major I judge the actions of jihadists by the prophet they wish to emulate, not by ridiculous comparisons to completely different religions, and this and the actions of the likes of Isis is completely in tune with his teachings.
    It’s clear from both of your comments that you’re a self-loathing western hating apologist for Islamic terrorism. It must be hard to look in the mirror.

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    Mar 7th 2015, 9:38 PM

    I neither condone nor support the likes of ISIS, how you come to that conclusion is beyond me. They are an anathema to me. My whole point is not to blame different religions or it’s followers for the sins of others who may even claim to speak for them. You may enjoy sitting god like and judging entire swathes of humanity based on the actions of some insane group of fanatics but I don’t.
    I would never make a Jew unwelcome because of the actions of the IDF, no more than I would make a Muslim feel unwelcome for the actions of some crazy group like ISIS. I am also educated enough to know that Judaism has many aspects, so too does Islam. That said I am suspicious of all religious groupings, especially Monotheistic ones.
    Something tell me you would never be called a self loather among your colleagues.
    All I do know for certain is that the only troops on the ground fighting ISIS are The Kurds, Hezbollah, Medhi Army in Iraq and the army of the Syrian state.Where is the religion of peace (Christianity) in all this? Ten to fifteen thousand meters above it all at best and then almost exclusively over Iraq.
    The defenders of civilisation are an unlikely, odd and disparate group to say the least.

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    Mar 7th 2015, 9:47 AM

    You should have mentioned in your piece that the Irish Defence Forces are deployed to Mali in small numbers.
    They are there as part of an EU training mission working with the British Army to train the local army.
    One Irish officer is in Bamako attached to the mission HQ, the others are 100k away at a training camp.
    Your reporter should check that they are safe, if they are on a heightened security alert, and the effect this attack will have on the mission, if any.

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    Mar 7th 2015, 11:54 PM

    I was actually drinking in that place two weeks ago.

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    Mar 7th 2015, 11:55 PM

    that would be asking the journal staff to do some work and not just redistribute articles from other news agencies.

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    Mar 7th 2015, 9:46 AM

    I wonder who’s responsible….

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    Mar 7th 2015, 2:41 PM

    Isn’t it bad enough that our army is collaborating with an organisation that was involved in the murder of hundreds of unarmed Irish men, women and children either directly or by their trained proxies but you want to highlight that shame?
    Dear oh dear, I am all for peace and reconciliation and close ties with our nearest neighbour but not with their military which has colluded in murder and cover up so much, all with in living memory. Some of these thugs are still serving in high rank. The British army’s record in ‘training’ armies and militias (murder gangs) is horrific compared to our army’s proud and excellent record in peace keeping.

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    Mar 7th 2015, 6:58 PM

    Cowardly murderers who are muslim

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    Mar 7th 2015, 8:14 PM

    @Buckwheat MacMillan. Verey well put. I couln’t agree with you more.

    Mali is far but Clongriffin is near. Focus here because this is where the “Fighters in Allah’s Cause” will be born,- bank-rolled by govt. of Qatar who is chief enabler of Muslim Brotherhood/Hamas/ISIS/ETC.
    And below is a quote from Mohammed’s war manual.

    Volume 4, Book 52, Number 196 :
    Narrated by Abu Huraira
    Allah ‘s Apostle said, ” I have been ordered to fight with the people till they say, ‘None has the right to be worshipped but Allah,’ and whoever says, ‘None has the right to be worshipped but Allah,’ his life and property will be saved by me except for Islamic law, and his accounts will be with Allah, (either to punish him or to forgive him.)”

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