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Poll: Have you ever cheated on your partner?

Rudy Giuliani thinks “everybody” has.

FORMER MAYOR OF New York Rudy Giuliani, now a top adviser to Donald Trump, has said “everybody” cheats on their spouse.

NBC’s Meet the Press asked Giuliani whether it was fair for him to criticise Hillary Clinton’s handling of her husband’s alleged affairs when he himself had dealt with his “own infidelity charge”.

In response, Giuliani, who has been married three times, said: “Well, everybody [cheats]. And I’m Roman Catholic, and I confess those things to my priest.”

We want to know: Have you ever cheated on a partner?


Poll Results:

No (18551)
Yes (7374)

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    Mute Cormac Laffan
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 9:52 AM

    This about the chocolate again?
    Alright, I ate the damn stuff and blamed the kids.
    I’m sorry.

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    Mute garb yakob
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:14 AM

    We were on a break!

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    Mute Phil Blanc
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:23 AM

    @Cormac Laffan:

    Some years ago…

    *Wife with son searching frantically in living room*

    Me: What are you doing.
    Wife: [Whispering] Searching for Tom’s chocolate. which I ate last night.

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    Mute lavbeer
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:24 AM

    Don’t worry Cormac when the grandkids arrive and you’re not as sharp as now, they will do it to you. Make hay when the sun shines I say ….

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    Mute Jho Harris
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:26 AM

    @Cormac Laffan: Heartening to see so many people who have so little in common with Trump’s advisors!

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    Mute Super Ted
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 12:13 PM

    Does fantasising about your girlfriends mother count as cheating? If it is, then I haven’t cheated. Don’t get me wrong, she’s a MILF but I don’t look at her that way.

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    Mute damien o brien
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 12:00 PM

    I have to admit I have cheated on my partner and it still haunts me to this day. We were playing Texas hold em one night and my girlfriend kept winning I went to the bathroom and on the way I grabbed two aces from another deck. I’m not proud of it but we are working through it.

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    Mute John Clark
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 9:50 AM

    Getting caught is the problem.

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    Mute Jon Mackey
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:04 AM

    Lying basterds

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    Mute cryptoskitzo
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:07 AM

    Does a strip club and a few lap dances count?

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    Mute Kieran OKeeffe
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:17 AM

    @cryptoskitzo:
    How you make a few quid is your own business…

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    Mute Ronan Sexton
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:56 AM

    Only if you’re male, otherwise it’s only a bit of a laugh.

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    Mute Maria Kissane
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:26 AM

    I don’t even have a partner to cheat on :-( :-( :-(

    (& I wouldn’t)

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    Mute Chief
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:55 AM

    Hola

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    Mute Alan Ryan
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:19 AM

    There was this one time in band camp,

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    Mute William Willis
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 9:55 AM

    ‘Twas only resting in my account.

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    Mute Joe Hill
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:39 AM

    What one partner might call flirting and walking close to the edge, the other might call cheating!

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    Mute Sam Palmer
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 9:53 AM

    Depends on what you mean by cheating.

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    Mute lavbeer
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:26 AM

    And partner. That’s relatively new terminology

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    Mute John Smith
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:53 AM

    @Sam Palmer: Hiding money under the roulette wheel of Go For Broke.

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    Mute David Murphey
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 11:40 AM

    Eating is not cheating.

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    Mute king Tut
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 11:03 AM

    I’d get up on anything with a pulse.

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    Mute Aoife
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:03 AM

    I always thought that catholics frowned upon divorce. They really are a mixed up bunch.

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    Mute Jimmyjoe Wallace
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:07 AM

    No Catholics can do what they like; child abuse, murder etc. Once they confess and show remorse the slate is wiped clean. Handy,eh?

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    Mute Phil Blanc
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:24 AM

    @Jimmyjoe Wallace: You forgot about judging other people for things. They’re mad for the judging others.

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    Mute Deborah Behan
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:52 AM

    Even though Jesus said they weren’t to judge and only God could do that. It’s like they don’t read the bible!

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    Mute Fiona Fitzgerald
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 11:13 AM

    You would wonder what a priest could do if the guy has an STD, though. Let him pass it to his wife, who might be pregnant? What an idiotic way to behave.

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    Mute David Mac Shite
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:17 AM

    70% of journal commentators at this time say no.
    That’s unbelievable. I guess many hit “no” in order to read the result but weren’t prepared to take a chance on being truthful on an online site.
    Most people I know have cheated at one time or another and those that haven’t are due to lack of opportunity.

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    Mute Stephen Cullen
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:23 AM

    So what your saying is ugly people don’t cheat.

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    Mute Al Ca
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 12:14 PM

    @David Mac Shite: Mmmmmh…….birds of a feather flock together.

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    Mute George Brown
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 2:19 PM

    @David: The reasons why so few people voted ‘yes I cheated’ could be a number of things.

    1) Journal commentators are young and most haven’t been adults long enough to make the mistake of cheating.

    2) This younger generation is less sociable, in terms of offline interaction obviously, so less opportunity to cheat throughout their lives when compared to the older crowds.

    3) A number of people who would have voted ‘yes I cheated’ didn’t want to, because they felt guilty and didn’t want to admit it, even anonymously. Skewing the results. These people may have avoided the article altogether.

    4) A number of people who have cheated have a different definition of cheating to the norm. They might say something like “it’s not cheating as long as long as it didn’t go in!”. So they vote “no I’ve never cheated”.

    5) I like numbered lists.

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    Mute Al Ca
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 2:43 PM

    @George Brown: Have you considered the possibility that people who say they haven’t cheated might be telling the truth and those who don’t believe it, think everyone else is just like them…….making it easier to justify their own indiscretions?

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    Mute George Brown
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:27 PM

    @Al Ca: I didn’t think I’d need to add that to the list lol

    6) There may be people who vote “no, I haven’t cheated” because they haven’t cheated.

    Also, yes people may be questioning the stats because they are projecting their own dishonesty onto others. Maybe I am too. Maybe you’re questioning the people who question the stats for the same reason.

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    Mute Dave Doyle
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:57 AM

    It’s a poor mouse that only has one hole.

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    Mute John Moylan
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 12:50 PM

    ….I have to admit yes.

    But what did she expect, there’s no way you can get 3 hotels and 2 houses on Mountjoy square and still collect €200 when you pass ‘Go’…………I just moved a few spaces extra ffs….

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    Mute will
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 9:51 AM

    The only people who are been cheated are the people of America

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    Mute Paul Mc
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 9:53 AM

    Not much of a Roman Catholic if the fool has been married 3 times unless of course he’s a widower.

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    Mute The_Techno_Mage
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 11:31 AM

    A Japanese girl at a bar once stuck her tongue down my mouth. She did that a few times and then tells me she’s engaged.

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    Mute Richard Deegan
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 11:32 AM

    Did Maria reply?????????????

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    Mute Cian Buckley
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 1:33 PM

    It would be interesting to see this broken down by gender..

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    Mute Tony Hartigan
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 12:06 PM

    He obviously has the morals of an ALLY CAT

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    Mute Winston Smith
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 1:50 PM

    Tony I don’t believe morals have anything to do with infidelity. We are by nature animals and have a desire to spread our genes as successfully as possible despite what the Victorians may think about it.

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    Mute Missyb211
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 7:41 PM

    @Winston Smith: Animals? We used to be apes but I don’t see any of us ditching our home comforts to run for the trees and live on bananas embracing our animalness!

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    Mute Michael Clinton
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 4:18 PM

    No , had it done on me many years ago and it was heartbreaking.

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    Mute Winston Smith
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 11:58 AM

    In my imagination every.

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    Mute Winston Smith
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 11:59 AM

    everyday

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    Mute George Brown
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 1:22 PM

    That’s wrongthought. Double ungood, Winston

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    Mute Winston Smith
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 1:46 PM

    Took me a moment to confess!!!

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    Mute Clare Bear
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:11 PM

    Couldn’t do it , last 2 long terns boyfriends (7 years with the last one) have cheated ! I don’t understand it if you’re not happy just break up with the person and then look somewhere else !!

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    Mute James Keogh
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 5:16 PM

    Often with a blonde in a black dress called Guinness, Lovely head on her, yumm

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    Mute Winston Smith
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 5:43 PM

    She’s two timing you mate I’ve had her many an evening!

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    Mute Winston Smith
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 3:35 PM

    Most of the arguments above could have been averted if there was a third option of 3) Not Sure/Can’t recall
    In fact for some of us can’t remember exactly what happend, if anything, or when…there is usually alcohol involved!

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    Mute Michael alder
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    Oct 4th 2016, 1:17 AM

    Over 17k are beside their partner as they vote

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    Mute Jānis Lazdāns
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 6:48 PM

    Where is “I don’t know” option???

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    Mute michael collins
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    Oct 3rd 2016, 10:26 AM

    absolutely yes

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