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Author behind heartbreaking Modern Love essay dies aged 51

Amy Krouse Rosenthal had recently written about being terminally ill and leaving behind her husband Jason.

AMY KROUSE ROSENTHAL, the popular author and filmmaker, has died at the age of 51.

She had recently written about being terminally ill and leaving behind her husband Jason.

Rosenthal had been diagnosed in 2015 with ovarian cancer. Her death was confirmed to the Associated Press by her longtime literary agent, Amy Rennert, who said Rosenthal “was the most life-affirming person, and love-affirming person”.

Fellow author John Green tweeted: “She was a brilliant writer, and an even better friend.”

A Chicago native and longtime resident, Rosenthal completed more than 30 books, including journals, memoirs and the best-selling picture stories Uni the Unicorn and Duck! Rabbit! She made short films and YouTube videos, gave TED talks and provided radio commentary for NPR, among others.

She also raised three children and had a flair for random acts of kindness, whether hanging dollar bills from a tree or leaving notes on ATM machines.

“I do what feels right to me. If it resonates or plants some seeds, great,” she told Chicago magazine in 2010.

Modern Love

While her books were noted for their exuberant tone, she started a very different conversation earlier this month with a widely read Modern Love column she wrote for The New York Times. Rosenthal told of learning about her fatal diagnosis, and, in the form of a dating profile, offered tribute to Jason Brian Rosenthal. The essay was titled You May Want to Marry My Husband.

“If you’re looking for a dreamy, let’s-go-for-it travel companion, Jason is your man. He also has an affinity for tiny things: taster spoons, little jars, a mini-sculpture of a couple sitting on a bench, which he presented to me as a reminder of how our family began,” she wrote.

Here is the kind of man Jason is: He showed up at our first pregnancy ultrasound with flowers. This is a man who, because he is always up early, surprises me every Sunday morning by making some kind of oddball smiley face out of items near the coffeepot: a spoon, a mug, a banana.

“I am wrapping this up on Valentine’s Day, and the most genuine, non-vase-oriented gift I can hope for is that the right person reads this, finds Jason, and another love story begins,” she added.

Obit-Amy Krouse Rosenthal Amy Krouse Rosenthal Kevin Nance / AP Kevin Nance / AP / AP

Rosenthal was a Tufts University graduate who worked in advertising for several years before she had what she called a McEpiphany: she was with her kids at McDonald’s when she promised herself that she would leave advertising and become a writer.

Rosenthal more than kept her word; starting in the late 1990s, she regularly published at least a book a year, and sometimes three or four. Rennert said yesterday that she had completed seven more picture books before her death, including a collaboration with her daughter, Paris, called Dear Girl.

17 Things I Made

Rosenthal loved experimenting with different media, and blending the virtual and physical worlds. One of her favourite projects began with a YouTube video, 17 Things I Made, featuring everything from books she had written to her three children to a peanut butter and jelly sandwich. At the end of the video, she welcomed fans to join her at Chicago’s Millennium Park, on 8 August, 2008 at 8.08pm. The goal was to make a “cool” 18th thing.

Hundreds turned out to “make” things — a grand entrance, a new friend, a splash, something pretty.

“I tend to believe whatever you decide to look for you will find, whatever you beckon will eventually beckon you,” she said during a 2012 TED talk.

Her books were equally untraditional. Textbook Amy Krouse Rosenthal, published in 2016, is divided into chapters named for school subjects, from Geography to Language Arts. Subtitled Not Exactly a Memoir, the book features lists, illustrations, charts, emails and text messages. In a section called Midterm Essay, Rosenthal reflected on middle age and her youthful passion for life.

“If it is wonderful, splendid, remarkable — a view outside a window, a lit-up fountain at night, that fig-chorizo appetiser — I am compelled to seek some sort of saturation point, to listen/stare/savor on a loop, to greedily keep at it until I’ve absorbed, absconded with, and drained it of all its magic,” she wrote.

“Invariably, I will have to move on before I have had enough. My first word was ‘more’. It may very well be my last.”

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    Mute Ken Collins
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    Apr 15th 2015, 7:38 AM

    Their defence of this slaughter is actually a joke in this day and age… We have to kill them to see what they eat and how old they are. Laughable from one of the most technologically advanced nations in the world.

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    Apr 15th 2015, 8:02 PM

    Hindus are still upset that we’re still experimenting on cattle to figure out how tasty the perfect steak is.

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    Apr 15th 2015, 7:51 AM

    They’ve established that the leading cause of death is a harpoon to the head.

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    Apr 15th 2015, 7:58 AM

    Japan have been whale hunting since the early 1900′s how much research do these fcukers need? and don’t get me started on the Dolphin hunts absolutely disgusting.

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    Apr 15th 2015, 10:33 AM

    you should just mind your own business. Let other countries manage their own affairs and traditions

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    Apr 15th 2015, 12:33 PM

    Except Sean, Japan has no claim to the whales of the Antarctic.

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    Apr 15th 2015, 7:36 AM

    horrific .. should be banned

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    Apr 15th 2015, 9:28 AM

    It is banned, at least for commercial purposes. The Japanese claiming that this is for “research” is obviously an attempt to circumvent the ban on whale hunting.

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    Apr 15th 2015, 6:01 PM

    The odd thing is that few in Japan actually eat it anymore. Its a bit like French people not really eating frogs legs and snails. In Japan whale meat is not very popular .

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    Apr 15th 2015, 7:39 AM

    Who are these idiots trying to convince? Certainly not the world! Murderers all.

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    Apr 15th 2015, 7:55 AM

    The sea shepherd and captain Paul Watson will be back in action soon. I am always very humbled to know that these people are so dedicated to the conservation of Whales and the lengths they will selflessly go to, to protect them.

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    Apr 15th 2015, 8:37 AM

    Whale Wars is one of the worst tv shows ever made, the whole logic behind the show is flawed. Its all about TV ratings, and not too much about saving whales. They have put peoples lives at risk, and spent a lot of money to save tens of whales, when that money could be spent on a legal team to change the laws on “research killings”, which would save thousands of whales over the decades. The Faroe Island episode was the worst one, as their whaling is actually sustainable, yet it made for good TV for people that believe everything they are fed.

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    Apr 15th 2015, 8:39 AM

    Faroe Islands whaling is an aberration and the fact that the eu allows it continue is a shocking reality.

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    Apr 15th 2015, 8:41 AM

    Just because its sustainable doesn’t make it right, fox hunting is sustainable but that’s not an excuse for this savagery. Have you ever seen the whale hunts on the Faroe Islands? Stuff of nightmares.

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    Apr 15th 2015, 8:56 AM

    Why is it an aberration, when its sustainable, and its one of their main sources of food? In the grand scale of things, its very small scale whaling, and is sustainable. The episode of whale wars in the Faroe Island made me agree with the Faroese people over Paul Watson. Yes I have seen the whale hunts on the Faroe Islands, I honestly wouldn’t comment on them unless I had. It not for someone with a weak stomach, however the same can be said about any meat factory. have a look at how chickens are killed!
    You can’t even begin to compare fox hunting to whaling. In modern hunts, its more about a day out with the horses and dogs, its actually rare that any foxes are killed, as they are nocturnal.

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    Apr 15th 2015, 9:07 AM

    Are you comparing the killing of mindless chickens to the killing of sentient beings like whales. Chickens get it easy compared to the whales who usually drown in their own blood. The islanders don’t need whale meat, they eat it as a delicacy, its just an out dated tradition that fulfils a bloodlust, that has no place in the modern world.

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    Apr 15th 2015, 9:30 AM

    Hi Justin.
    You say “its actually rare that any foxes are killed, as they are nocturnal.” I regularly see foxes during the day on my walks in the countryside. Why would they be chasing them during the day if they thought there were none about?!!
    “its more about a day out with the horses and dogs,” Yes but with the intention of catching a fox and ripping it to shreds with packs of dogs. A questionable day out pursuit in our modern times.
    Are you not aware of the studies which link animal abuse and manic behavior??
    This is not hunting for food, it is killing for pleasure and i believe it should be banned along with any other activity which involves killing animals for pleasure.

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    Apr 15th 2015, 9:44 AM

    Chickens are also sentient. As are pigs, of which there are over 1.5 million in Ireland, their sole purpose is to be slaughtered and eaten. My points about Paul Watson, and National Geographic are valid though, the Faroese people kill a small number of non endangered whales every year. However, as they are slaughtered in a way that looks horrific to most people, it shocks people into supporting the Sea Shepherd, and males them look like heroes. However, while National Geographic and Paul Watson are spending money making a show against sustainable whaling, the Japanese are still killing endangered whales. If they really cared about saving those whales that need the most help, then that money would be spend on changing the laws, or banning meat from endangered whales in Japan. However, that wouldn’t make for an exciting tv show. Its not just whales that need help, the Japanese are killing thousands of sharks every year too for shark fin soup. Sharks are taken on board a boat, fins cut off, then thrown back alive with no fins to die. But as sharks are seen as “killers”, and not friendly like whales, most people don’t care, so it would be hard to fund a “shark wars” tv show. Whale wars in a nut shell, is and incredibly scripted piece of American garbage, giving the “facts” they want to give, while putting peoples lives at risk.

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    Apr 15th 2015, 9:58 AM

    Shane Carroll, for the record, I don’t go on hunts, I have never even been on a horse! I do come from a farming background though. Yes, you will see foxes during the day time in the summer, but not that many, as they are nocturnal. To see them in the middle of the day is very rare, its usually early in the morning, or late in the evening when the nights are short in the summer. I don’t agree with fox hunting with dogs, but in most hunts, they its rare for them to even see a fox. As I mentioned, the modern hunt is a social event, people don’t go out with the idea of trying to kill as many foxes as they can. If you have ever seen a hunt, take note of the condition of the horses and hounds, they don’t really look like they have been abused. Also, how many people that have pets, will set rat/mouse traps, or poison? Foxes are not killed for pleasure either, its the same as killing mice/rats. If a fox gets into a chicken coop, thats the end of the chickens, also, in spring a new born lamb is a very easy target

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    Apr 15th 2015, 10:17 AM

    Fair enough that is a good point in relation to farmers and i understand foxes can pose a threat to their livelyhoods.
    However their are other preventative measures and i don’t think that hunting a fox with hounds is a solution to this issue.
    A loose pack of hounds has the potential to do much more damage than a fox ever could!
    Also from the people i know involved in fox hunts, the majority of them have nothing to do with chicken or sheep farming.

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    Apr 15th 2015, 10:40 AM

    I agree, and the horses can do a lot of damage to land in too! A lot of farmers don’t want hunts on their land, for the reasons you mentioned. There is also the issue of liability if somebody gets injured on your land. You are right, most people on the hunts are mainly into horses, a lot wont have chickens or sheep. to be honest, I cant remember the last time I heard of a local hunt actually killing a fox. 30-40 years ago, it would have been different, as it was the main form of keeping the foxes numbers down. Lamping at night with a riffle accounts for the vast majority of foxes being killed now.

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    Apr 15th 2015, 11:11 AM

    I thought they rammed Sea Shepherd and broke it in 2? Was there another one?

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    Apr 15th 2015, 7:51 AM

    What’s wrong with us humans!

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    Apr 15th 2015, 12:29 PM

    Selfish with the thinking and acting of a virus or cancer, greed, greed and more greed?

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    Apr 15th 2015, 8:34 AM

    1. Exactly how often do whales change their diet that 300+ of them need to be gutted every year for inspection?

    2. Just ban the sale of the whale meat from research. Just force the destruction of the carcass. They will stop spending money chasin, killing and processing them if there is no money in it

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    Apr 15th 2015, 7:59 AM

    Scientific research me arse!!!

    This is a worthwhile, but tough watch -

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=P08ay4y-gE0

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    Apr 15th 2015, 8:15 AM

    Japan has bought a lot of IWC votes with foreign aid packages. It’s very difficult to eradicate this problem by using official channels. But it needs to stop.

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    Apr 15th 2015, 8:43 AM

    Its a total shambles, the Japanese cant even give the whale meat away in their own country, they make schools serve it for lunch just to keep a few whalers in a job.

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    Apr 15th 2015, 7:39 AM

    Hum

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    Apr 15th 2015, 9:13 AM

    Good people, bad tastes – only way to really stop it is to embarrass them publicly

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    Apr 15th 2015, 8:25 AM

    awful!

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    Apr 15th 2015, 12:28 PM

    I thought it was because whale meat was a delicacy and the fat cats there love eating it, they eat it until all the whales became extinct?

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    Apr 15th 2015, 5:40 PM

    Easiest way to stop whaling is to run a campaign to stop buying Japanese products if they start whaling again

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