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'Incontinence, groin pain, I find it hard to walk and physical relations with my husband are impossible'

Niamh had a vaginal mesh operation 10 years ago and says even though she is only 58, she now feels like she is 90.

There is global scrutiny surrounding transvaginal mesh devices which are used in surgeries to treat conditions women can develop after a natural childbirth. Thousands of women have reported complications such as the mesh protruding through the vagina, chronic pain, and recurrent urinary tract infections.

TheJournal.ie has been covering  the issue  extensively  and shared women’s stories.

These procedures have been carried out on women in Ireland since the late 90s and are still performed today. Here, Niamh describes how her life changed forever when what was described as “a simple operation” left her in pain, exhausted and meant she could no longer be intimate with her husband.  

I WAS 48 when I first started to experience stress urinary incontinence. First, it was little leaks from coughing and sneezing, but it got so bad my bladder could empty spontaneously at any time – it was distressing.

My gynaecologist had me on medication for it at the start and physiotherapy, but none of that worked. I was offered an operation.

The surgeon would use a mesh sling to lift up my bladder. I have no recollection of being told of any complications.

I would never have agreed to the operation if I had known what was to come.

In March 2008 I had my operation. Within 48 hours of being released I was in the emergency department. Diagnosed with an infection, I was given antibiotics and sent home again. I felt mostly fine, but I did notice I had to stand and bend over to empty my bladder properly.

Four years later I started getting recurring urinary tract infections and I was constantly on antibiotics. I was worried about the amount I was taking and I had begun to notice a sore sensation in my vagina so I went to see a urologist. A cystoscopy revealed my bladder was covered in red blotches from the infections.

In an appointment with a different urologist, he told me he could feel where he thought the mesh was protruding into my vagina and causing the pain. He told me he could remove this portion of the mesh and I agreed to this.

The partial remove left its own problems.

My complications have been extremely difficult to deal with. As you can imagine any physical relationship with my husband is impossible. This is very stressful and embarrassing to have to discuss with anyone, even the urologist. While my family and close friends would know my situation, I am from a small town in Cork – I would feel embarrassed if people found out about me.

I now have urge incontinence, pain in my groin on the side of the partial removal, pain in my lower abdomen and find it hard to walk any great distance because of pain and weakness. I am constantly tired and can only do so much housework before I have to rest.

Everything I do is affected by mesh. I have to ask ‘Will I be able?’ before I go anywhere or do anything. I couldn’t, for instance, go shopping for four or five hours, I would feel like I was going to collapse with weakness in my legs and pain. I hope someday to have grandchildren, but I know I will be physically unable to enjoy them or even mind them as I had hoped to do.

I am only 58 years of age and I feel as if I am 90.

This afternoon I will be protesting at Leinster House with other women affected by vaginal mesh complications. I’ll be joined by my husband who is very supportive.

It is important to me to let the people in Ireland know how devastating this mesh is. I would hate anyone to go through what I am going through today.

I want politicians to know that we went for a so-called simple operation to repair an embarrassing issue. We have ended up having our lives devastated.

I think my life is changed forever and I will have to live with that until the day I die, all because of this “simple operation”.

Niamh is a 58-year-old mother-of-one from Co Cork. She is one of a number of women in Ireland who have reported painful complications after an operation using surgical mesh. She and other members of the Mesh Survivors Ireland group will protest at 12pm outside Leinster House today.

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    Mute Stephen Carrick
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 12:16 PM

    I’d die

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    Mute nf
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 1:12 PM

    Scorpionvenom for a guy afraid of snakes and dying at the thought of it, you’ve a very misleading username

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    Mute Scorpionvenomm
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 1:22 PM

    Scorpion might have something to do with November ha

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    Mute Colin Webber
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 2:30 PM

    I’d cook him and eat him. Ate snake in Thailand. Absolutely delicious.

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    Mute S
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 2:01 PM

    Ultimate game of Snakes & Ladders

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    Mute Rosie Murray
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 12:13 PM

    First a spider crawled out on front of me this morning… Now I have this to look forward to??!!

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    Mute Fozz
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 12:15 PM

    Well, in good news, the snake would make short order of the spider…

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    Mute The Girl
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 12:22 PM

    I don’t think people should be allowed to keep snakes in Ireland.. They’re not very friendly…they escape, can breed and then start turning up in bathrooms and homes..like in Australia. I don’t like snakes…I don’t like them at all, even the non poisonous ones.

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    Mute Ron North
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 1:07 PM

    How can you say they’re not very friendly?

    They’re amazingly friendly, it’s just the language barrier and their intellectual thoughtful nature that makes them seem so aloof.

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    Mute Jim Woodcock
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 12:15 PM

    Five feet? About the same size as my shnake.

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    Mute TTIP McGowan
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 12:17 PM

    G’lad.

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    Mute Mark Symmons
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 12:50 PM

    And made of wood?

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    Mute Marg murphy
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 12:22 PM

    On my Facebook feed I saw a gigantic yellow snake eating a puppy alive. Now I’ve have a fear not only of snakes but also of scrolling through Facebook. I never want to see that again.

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    Mute Daniel R
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 1:28 PM

    “Where the snake is making a recovery…”
    What about the man??
    He’ll need some serious counselling after that lol

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    Mute James Darby
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 12:32 PM

    Where’s Saint Patrick when you need him.

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    Mute Barry Barrison
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 1:26 PM

    That’s a just a myth! He’s as big a fraud as jebidiah Springfield!

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    Mute Joe Phillips
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 1:41 PM

    Not exactly… he ‘drove out’ pagan druids who used to have tattoos of serpents on their forearms, apparently.
    Basically, he killed people for not sharing his beliefs.

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    Mute Joe Phillips
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 1:42 PM

    and Jebediah was a perfectly cromulent embiggenator

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    Mute Reg
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 12:19 PM

    You’d be checking your underpants after that!

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    Mute Proinsias Ó Foghlú
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 12:44 PM

    Throwing it away!

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    Mute Declan Carr
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 1:21 PM

    I found one years ago on Dollymount beach. I got a fright, i picked it up with a stick put it into a bag and brought it to the zoo, RTE were there at the time covering a vet show. I was as nervous as hell driving over I was afraid it would get out of the bag.

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    Mute Byyys
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 12:24 PM

    Homeowner did mention that the past owner was a snake!

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    Mute Alan Scott
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 12:19 PM

    We read a story concerning a huge spider on the Journal.ie some weeks ago and now this snake . I suppose wit

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    Mute John Sheahan
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 1:05 PM

    Must have been hiding out for for paddys day.

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    Mar 22nd 2016, 1:19 PM

    Last Canvasser found in Dublin Home !

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    Mute Dain Flemming
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 12:22 PM

    If it wasn’t a sea snake then it wasn’t poisonous…it wasn’t venomous?

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    Mute Richard F
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 5:42 PM

    Nice of the previous owners to let them know there was a snake loose in the attic

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    Mute Terry Cahill
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 4:06 PM

    As regards snakes not being friendly I opened my door one morning in Thailand and there was a beauty sunning itself, but ultimately in my way. I tried reasoning with it, like “Shoo” , ” go away” “I’ll get the manager” but it didn’t oblige. Because I had no idea whether it was dangerous or not I had to sit it out until it decided to slither down a rainspout ! Very uncommunicative indeed ! Inconvenienced me , late for breakfast !!

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    Mute Barry Walsh
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 2:56 PM

    We need bears to tackle these snakes

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    Mute Conor Foley
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 1:38 PM

    Petrol? Check
    Matches? Check

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    Mute Alan Scott
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 12:22 PM

    We read a story concerning a huge spider on the Journal.ie some weeks ago and now this snake . I suppose with more people bringing them from other Countrys the odd one poping up here and there will happen . As long as they don’t pose to a person’s life its not a problem

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    Mute Alan Scott
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 12:24 PM

    Apologies for half a post above This phone has a mind of its own

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    Mute Mr D
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 3:03 PM

    And not even a week after St.Patricks day…..

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    Mute The Girl
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 12:31 PM

    Might not be your phone@Alan. Journal app behaving queer since yesterday…

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    Mar 22nd 2016, 1:26 PM

    @the girl.
    Thank you for that info

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    Mute Keith Wizzy
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 3:58 PM

    Us shirt lifters don’t mind. Just don’t call me a ceiling lifter.

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    Mute Michael Latimer
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 12:41 PM

    Can you eat it in a stew !!!

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    Mar 22nd 2016, 4:36 PM

    Michael
    Yes fairly tasty

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    Mar 22nd 2016, 5:56 PM

    For sure Stephen. The shock alone would kill me.

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    Mute Gus Sheridan
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 12:42 PM

    I have Rat Snakes in the country all around me. Harmless and help keep the rat population down.

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    Mar 23rd 2016, 1:53 AM

    I killed a 5ft Python in Thailand with my bare hands once……when I say bare hands I mean I gripped the steering wheel and drove over that sucker…..still gives me the creeps when I think about it.

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    Mute Blake Murtagh
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 2:25 PM

    #snakesonthebrain

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    Mute Cian Morris
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    Mar 22nd 2016, 8:17 PM

    Jaysus!!

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