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Brexit is contributing to marriage breakdowns - UK psychotherapist

“The sort of things that we’re all documenting is senses of fear, anxiety, shame, and a loss of a sense of safety.”

A UK PSYCHOTHERAPIST has said that Brexit is contributing to marriage breakdowns, saying it when the relationships broke down, it continued to “disentangle it further”.

Patricia Hunt, the Vice Chair of the UK Council for Psychotherapy, told the Irish Council of Psychotherapy that they had been documenting the reported feelings associated with the vote.

This includes the effect it’s had on relationships.

It’s created family tension. We know it’s contributed to some marriage breakdown, it’s not the only reason for marriage breakdown but it might be the final thing.

“It’s also had profound effects on families because of a split in the voting – generational splits particularly. The majority of young people voted to remain, whilst the majority of over 65s voted to leave. ”

She said that there was a clinic in London that had been set up specifically to deal with the fears of people who live in Britain but might not be able to stay because of Brexit.

“They are completely overwhelmed by demand,” she told TheJournal.ie.

Brexit Two dogs interact during the march in central London by dog owners and their pets to demand a new Brexit referendum. 7 October 2018. Yui Mok Yui Mok

Hunt said that the fractured nature of Brexit could lead people to connect that with a sense of being cut off that they may have experienced elsewhere.

“What does Brexit symbolise for people? To what extent do they feel like they belong, or they don’t belong?”

She said that the sense that it was “irreversible” makes people feel powerless, and feel a sense of grief or loss as a result.

The sort of things that we’re all documenting is senses of fear, anxiety, shame, and a loss of a sense of safety.

“People hadn’t realised the sense of their identity and their persona was based on their sense of their nationhood until it became challenged by the vote, and that gives people a sense of insecurity.”

Have you travelled back to Ireland after the Brexit vote, or do you plan to after the UK officially leaves? Get in touch if you’d like to share your experience: grainne@thejournal.ie

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    Jun 25th 2024, 9:32 PM

    Martin is losing his marbles making him Minister for Finance

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    Jun 25th 2024, 9:37 PM

    Another man the bankers, developers, cuckoo funds and vulture funds can count on. This man won’t do anything for the ordinary irish person.

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    Jun 26th 2024, 12:06 AM

    @Washpenrebel: It was ok for Doherty to go off to London in April courtesy Davy Stock Brokers. Now these slanderous accusations are being made about Chambers without foundation. The election showed that thumbs up in the Journal is probably orchestrated.

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    Jun 26th 2024, 1:41 AM

    @Washpenrebel: I am delighted for you shinners, a hunger strike couldn’t even save ye now lol

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    Jun 26th 2024, 12:58 PM

    @Washpenrebel: ‘this is the way’

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    Jun 25th 2024, 10:47 PM

    Chambers, another FF shyster who rose without a trace!

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    Jun 26th 2024, 12:43 AM

    @Brian Hunt: nah he’s been working in my area for years , actually he’s a good lad with incredible work ethic and was fully engaged in transport job he’s had recently.
    We do need fresh faces with a high level of competence. I’m not surprised he was picked for the job. As for finance , civil service run that department. He’ll have very little to do except hold up the USB drive on budget day like his predecessors ( who held up a brief case) for the photo op.

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    Jun 25th 2024, 10:21 PM

    He’s a cold, callous weirdo and his expedited ascension from the FF test tube is unnerving.

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    Jun 26th 2024, 7:11 AM

    The Hypocrisy of those in the Dail standing applauding Natasha O Brien, when they have failed her & all other victims of crime.
    Sickening watching Helen Mc Entee & the leaders of the parties, when they are the ones responsible for the breakdown of Law & Order & the hames of a Judicial system we have.
    The “anger” of Harris & Micheal Martin at the Defence Forces is sickening & deflection from their own failures over the years. No reform of the Judiciary, Legal System or Sentencing as it’s the Golden Circle, while victims pay the price.
    Remember Ashling Murphy & that round of applause & things would change & Micheal Martin dismissing her boyfriend. Nothing changed, now another round of applause.
    Natasha has done more in one week to highlight their failures & as she says, just do your jobs !

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    Jun 26th 2024, 7:57 AM

    @SV3tN8M4: it was sickening alright, even seeing the shinners clapping given their track record towards women

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    Jun 26th 2024, 8:15 AM

    @SV3tN8M4: you are so so right..Asling Murphy RiP.

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    Jun 25th 2024, 10:00 PM

    Anybody else think Chambers looks like a young version of Stan Smith from American Dad

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    Jun 25th 2024, 10:21 PM

    There is no knife that cuts so sharply and with such poisoned blade as treachery.
    Ouida

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    Jun 25th 2024, 10:19 PM

    I think it’s a great appointment. Just because he is young does not mean he is not capable.

    If someone else, who was hinted at, was appointed, people would say here we go again.

    Always the trolls.

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    Jun 25th 2024, 11:02 PM

    @rory457: But he’s more than likely Not suitable for the job, but that’s the way it goes in government & sure he doesn’t need to know much as he’ll have loads of advisers!!

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    Jun 26th 2024, 12:38 AM

    @rory457: Nothing to do with “trolls” Rory. Here we go again…

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    Jun 26th 2024, 7:35 AM

    @rory457: he’s a 34 year old with no real job experience,such what can go wrong ???

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    Jun 26th 2024, 10:44 AM

    @rory457: I hope I am wrong but I think his appointment is a bit scary. A senior minister needs to be very experienced and capable of arguing their point against the likes of Pearse Doherty and the mandarins in the Dept of Finance. And he has to have a strong and assertive public persona to put his policies across to the public. He may be highly intelligent but on TV, he couldn’t argue his way out of a paper bag. Just like McEntee.
    He has being rushed to the top to counter Simon Harris and FG, he ain’t no Simon Harris. And to give Martin a tighter grip on his party.
    For the sake of the country, I wish him well but am not going to hold my breath

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    Jun 26th 2024, 1:24 PM

    @Colette Kearns: And if SF win an election and Doherty is, yes the same Doherty who lied about his qualifications and has never worked in Finance in his entire career, his financial experience was to pay someone 8k from his unclaimed expenses when they should have been returned to the Exchequer…….

    For heavens sake

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    Jun 26th 2024, 1:28 PM

    @BarryH: Pearce Doherty lied about his qualifications and is nothing special. I think it’s changing of the Guards and let’s be honest we don’t need 60 year olds deciding for 30 year olds, if he makes a mess the electorate will tell him.

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    Jun 26th 2024, 3:26 PM

    No qualifications in business or economics but sure hay Jack your perfect to run the countries finances. :)

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    Jun 26th 2024, 12:58 PM

    Didn’t he drop out of studying medicine to become a politician?

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    Jun 26th 2024, 1:00 PM

    @James Brennan: Had studied political science in Trinity too

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    Jun 26th 2024, 1:31 PM

    @James Brennan: At least he has a degree.

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    Jun 26th 2024, 4:09 PM

    John doe =orange c,,t

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