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Ivana Bacik Any trivialising of gender-based violence by the courts is unhelpful

The Labour senator says any downplaying of the seriousness of sexual assaults in the courts will cause the further regression of social attitudes towards these crimes.

IN RECENT WEEKS, it has been reported that in several cases before different courts, men responsible for assaults of women were offered the opportunity to be spared a prison term or even a criminal conviction if they paid money to the victims.

Without commenting on the issues in any individual case, these reports do raise a question about how violence against women – or gender-based violence – is dealt with in the criminal law.

Of course, immensely positive legal changes for women that have occurred in Irish society in recent years – with the successful repeal of the Eighth Amendment in 2018, and greater legal recognition around gender-based violence generally.

The passage of new laws in 2017 and 2018 have introduced stronger protections for victims of domestic violence and sexual assault. All of this is very welcome.

Much improvement needed

Unfortunately, we know that rates of domestic violence have increased dramatically during the Covid-19 pandemic, despite the recent positive legal changes. Any changes have been hard-won, brought about largely because of the brave women who have spoken out about their experiences as victims and survivors; and the advocacy of others supporting them.

The work of NGOs like Women’s Aid and Safe Ireland has debunked many of the problematic myths around rape and domestic violence. We now have a better understanding of the terrible effects of such offences upon victims, and we know that the majority of perpetrators are known to their victims.

We also know about the enormous danger many women face within their own homes. In 2019, Women’s Aid revealed that 230 women had been killed, and 16 children had died alongside their mothers since Women’s Aid records began in 1996. Almost 9 in 10 women were killed by a man known to them (87%).

In spite of these grim realities, the seriousness, frequency and pervasiveness of the violence labelled ‘domestic’ is often played down or denied; it is all too often explained away by external factors such as alcoholism or unemployment, and appallingly sometimes portrayed as a reaction or response to provocation from the victim.

Even where victims are not directly blamed for provoking the violence, they are often regarded as complicit in it because they stay with their abusers.

Effects of abuse

Fortunately, research evidence has contradicted these problematic myths, showing that domestic violence is not a rare or isolated event within otherwise happy families.

It has been found, for example, that the apparently ‘passive partners’, who stay with their abuser and endure violence against themselves and their children, may have undergone serious personality changes as a result of the abuse.

The term ‘domestic violence’ has itself been criticised as amounting to a downplaying or trivialising of what may more accurately be described as ‘violence in intimate relationships’ and is often referred to as a form of ‘gender-based violence’.

But whatever the term used, this remains an issue fraught with difficulty in law; and a phenomenon which causes great human misery and suffering, particularly to women and children.

The research and the advocacy around domestic violence have generated greater understanding about the nature of gender-based violence more generally.

This new understanding has led to many positive recent law reforms, including the introduction of a new statutory definition of ‘consent’ to help in the prosecution of rape cases; and the creation of a new offence of ‘coercive control’ – in recognition that in many domestic violence cases, a pattern of intimidatory and controlling behaviour is evident, which may have a severe impact upon the confidence and quality of life of the person victimised.

Indeed, the reports of a high-profile conviction for coercive control in January will undoubtedly create greater awareness among victims that this sort of behaviour is now subject to criminal sanction.

Broader supports

Despite these very positive changes, a core problem with the criminal law is that it is generally designed to deal with isolated events – it can be difficult to apply in the context of an ongoing abusive relationship. Indeed, we know that a great deal of domestic violence goes unreported at all. And we also know that the law is only one part of the solution.

A whole package of other measures is necessary, such as the provision of shelters for victims and their children and adequate resources for support groups. However, we also need a fundamental change of emphasis – to move towards tackling the perpetrators and preventing the abuse, rather than constantly trying to mend the damage that abusers do.

As one contributor to an Oireachtas Justice Committee on domestic violence put it, ‘why is it the women and children who must flee their homes?’.

Given the right set of facts and a suitable litigant, I believe there is potential for legal action to be taken against the State for the failure to provide adequate protection against domestic violence to women and children – perhaps a case waiting to happen.

But such litigation alone will not be enough to achieve the fundamental change in social attitudes required to really tackle the awful problem of gender-based and domestic violence.

The reports about recent court cases show that, where judges, police or others are seen to downplay the seriousness of assaults against women through sentencing practice or criminal justice policies, this does not help in changing those social attitudes.

Ivana Bacik is a Labour senator for Dublin University.

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    Mute Ritchie Cooney
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    Jul 30th 2014, 1:10 PM

    Lovely thoughts and nicely written.

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    Mute Seeking Truth
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    Jul 30th 2014, 1:35 PM

    Thanks for your honesty. Both of my parents passed away in the past couple of years…one to cancer, the other suddenly with a heart attack. We must move on…and move on we do. But we will be OK if we take our time and grieve well. Congratulations on making it through the first year after your loss, and may your grief continue to ease with time.

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    Jul 30th 2014, 2:51 PM

    Who would honestly redthumb this comment.

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    Mute Ryan Carroll
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    Jul 30th 2014, 4:28 PM

    I’d recommend leaving a journal behind and doing one or more video messages, if you know you’re dying or at risk of it. Its all in how they say their goodbyes to u and what tone that leaves.

    This is how I did it. started the journal as if it was a biography, going back as far as I could remember.
    I put all my political musings and policy ideas into a separate one that if I come out OK I can turn into a book or something
    An aunts funeral not long before got me wondering what way I’d want that done. So I wrote a will, laying out s secular memorial no church,

    It used to irritate me to see generic catch all prayers and vague Eulogy’s not specific to the person. So I picked a friend who is like the brother I never had to do the eulogy.
    For the video message I got a haircut n metrosexual spit polish, a 9 hour sleep, picked a nice A&F sweater, jeans n shirt doing my best to look like I normally do n less of a pale tired burnout and made a video in the present tense talking to the memorial service. Made some joking refs to the family myths around death, said hi to the priest I knew sisters would bring to do a blessing despite the secular nature of the event, and said my goodbyes. Body language is relaxed and informal like I’m sitting in the room with them. I figured that way their last memory isn’t seeing me laying motionless (however peaceful) in the casket but sitting on a sofa in my nicer clothes smiling and alive, I think its a nicer memory to leave them with.

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    Mute sineady pie
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    Jul 30th 2014, 2:53 PM

    I could only hope to be so brave. You remind me of my mother.

    I wish you, your kitty and your family all the very best x

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    Jul 30th 2014, 7:11 PM

    I lost my aunt some years ago who was like a mother to me she died suddenly in st James hospital I was devastated, my whole world fell apart, then 5 years ago my dad died of lung cancer, he was my knight in shining armour, you never get over a loved one passing on you just learn to cope with it, and know they are happy and pain free..

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    Jul 30th 2014, 2:20 PM

    Thank you for sharing. ..yes life does go on and in time pain, loss, gets a bit easier to deal with and im sure your husband is loving every second of your new found happiness in life …

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    Jul 30th 2014, 3:34 PM

    Beautiful piece

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    Jul 30th 2014, 6:12 PM

    The new fella could do with getting those teeth sorted out.

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    Jul 30th 2014, 7:09 PM

    Beautiful writing so lovely and gentle choice of language.

    To parents who lost a child, that is to say the toughest grief my advice is take a moment at a time when your alone and deal with their memory and loss. Then fufil your day with plenty of tender loving care.

    To children who lose a parent , you don’t have the words to express how you feel. But if your sad and not in form to do much tell people I am sad. Mammy or Daddy is gone away. To the adult let the child express the emotions and if it has been a traumatic event that caused the death talk to Barnardo’s they give excellent advice.

    To the surviving sister, brother, son or daughter. You must grieve because grieving is a process of letting go and honouring the person who is gone with tears of admiration. Take your time set your own pace and don’t rush it.

    To all people grieving this article is excellent but allow yourself to live again when your raw emotions heal it normally can take uo to two years. For cancer deaths there is the awe stage of grieving and it can be confusing because you might have delayed onset of grief this is quite normal.

    Best treatment is to talk about the person gone. Some day you will think of them and not cry but move on to a better acceptance their gone.

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    Jul 30th 2014, 1:24 PM

    nice but “jameson” as a baby boys name?

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    Oct 4th 2014, 7:42 PM

    Lost both parents to brain tumours; my dad in 1998 and my mum in 2010. After my own dad’s death, whatever my own mum did afterwards, I respected and supported everything she did that kept her happy. After her own death four years ago, it started a long journey to move forward. There was no denying that I changed in certain ways and it wasn’t easy. There were things that I didn’t have the same enjoyment for as I previously did and there was a reluctance to do some things as it just would have brought back memories. I also developed new routines that would keep me positive. In the last year, I started to once again enjoy some things I used to do, but doing it in a different way. I may never have forgotten but in my own ways, I’ve moved on. It’s a journey that requires a lot of patience and understanding and every day is a new day, every step taken is a goal and every bridge crossed is an extension of a journey. The only person who knows when they are ready is oneself.

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