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Your evening longread: Why I'm glad I'm an overthinker

We bring you an interesting longread each evening to take your mind off the news.

EVERY WEEK, WE bring you a round-up of the best longreads of the past seven days in Sitdown Sunday.

And now, every weeknight, we bring you an evening longread to enjoy which will help you to escape the news cycle. 

We’ll be keeping an eye on new longreads and digging back into the archives for some classics.

Being an overthinker

Annalisa Barbieri is an overthinker – and though it’s sometimes a pain, she’s often very glad of it. Here’s why.

(Read in The Guardian, approx 7 mins reading time)

Of course, it doesn’t take a genius to realise that my overthinking, like most things, probably started in childhood. I had a loving, noisy but at times unpredictable childhood. Dinner was always on the table at the same time, and it was always delicious. My mother and father were always, physically, where they said they would be. But I grew up in a house where emotions weren’t discussed, they were bottled up, only to explode out in random unpredictable ways – or a silence would ensue for some wrongdoing I had to fathom out all by myself.

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    Mute PVD
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    Jan 15th 2018, 6:35 AM

    Welcome to the reality of supporting some one with a difference here , talk to parents and siblings about how we have to fight for everything.

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    Jan 15th 2018, 8:39 AM

    Fair play to the foster carers for contacting the Ombudsman and therefore going up against Tusla and the HSE. Not a decision taken lightly. There is a bullying mentality when you go against these agencies. Hopefully now the child and her family will get the supports they need. It’s disgraceful that the family had to put themselves through the stress and pressure to get the outcome.

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    Jan 15th 2018, 9:57 AM

    @Clare Sharkey: Sad thing is that TUSLA are in the process of moving the child into a residential type setting and removing her from the wonderful foster family. Wouldn’t it be much easier to put the supports in place and leave her with the loving foster family.

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    Jan 15th 2018, 10:37 AM

    @Lorraine Roche: its a power struggle. Easier to blame foster carers than themselves.

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    Jan 15th 2018, 8:37 AM

    It’s not only children with disabilities who are in care the system is failing it’s children with disabilities full stop. Your child with a disability is accepted into a service-8-18 disability service- they then have to go on waiting lists within that service for Speech& Language, Occupational Therapy, Psychologist etc…. Services are badly organised and seriously under resourced.

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    Jan 15th 2018, 6:38 AM

    A certain spectacle Senator with his “human rights activists” friends will be working tirelessly on this one.

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    Jan 15th 2018, 6:43 AM

    “bespectacled

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    Jan 15th 2018, 9:10 AM

    @Are roo from Cork: think you were right first time.

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    Jan 15th 2018, 7:02 AM

    Abandoned at birth !!!!!????

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    Jan 15th 2018, 1:59 PM

    The poor Girl can expect a lifetime of neglect by the state, funding is ridiculously low in the intellectual disability area, from childhood right through to Adult services!
    The Government should take control of all services and streamline while increasing funding – the current system with dozens of organisations with CEO’s on mainly over €100k with generous expenses is putting tax money into the wrong hands instead of into the frontline where conditions have plummeted and staff under severe pressure are leaving disillusioned!
    Put the money where it matters and strip away the red tape to give those with disabilities the services they deserve- too much of a gravy train at present!

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    Jan 15th 2018, 2:18 PM

    @David Grey: leo will be in shortly saying how “it shouldn’t be like this”

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